Stop Overthinking Gratitude — Do This Instead

Feeling grateful shouldn’t feel like a chore.

In this episode, Amanda shares how gratitude transforms your biology—boosting immunity, balancing hormones, and calming your stress response in seconds.

You’ll learn her “3-Second Gratitude Reset,” plus easy ways to weave gratitude into daily life:
 ✨ Use gratitude instead of apologizing
 🧂 Add Hawaiian Salt Ceremonies to nourish your body and energy
 🌿 Find calm even in chaos

Perfect for driven, curious women who want grounded rituals for a healthier, more attuned life this holiday season.

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Chapters

• 0:00 Intro — You’re overthinking gratitude
• 1:11 Why gratitude is medicine
• 5:09 The 3-second gratitude reset
• 6:10 Everyday gratitude swaps

Transcript

0:03

You are overthinking gratitude. You think it has to be a journal, a ritual, or a long reflection, but that's actually what's keeping you from feeling its power. Here's the truth. Gratitude is medicine, and the research backs it up. It boosts your immunity, balances hormones, and even shifts your heart's electromagnetic field. In this episode, I'm going to show you how to unlock those benefits in seconds, not hours. So you can feel grounded, healthy, and clear, even in the chaos of work, motherhood, political unrest, life. And the best part, these practices are simple enough to do anywhere. No journal required. Let's dive in. Here's what's wild. Gratitude isn't just an emotion. It's a biological event. When you shift into gratitude, your brain starts firing differently. Your vagus nerve activates cortisol drops and your heart rhythm literally smooths out. Gratitude tells your nervous system you're safe. And that's when your body starts healing. Think of it this way. Stress and gratitude can't coexist. Gratitude. is the antidote. But it doesn't work if you think about it from your head. You have to feel it in your body, like warmth, relief, or the deep exhale that says, I'm okay. Let's get practical. You don't need a journal or ritual, just presence. Here's one I call the three second gratitude reset. Step one, feel your feet on the ground. Step two, breathe in and name one thing that's working in your life right now. Step three, exhale and let that feeling expand in your body. That's it. You've just shifted your physiology, your energy and your perception in under three seconds. You can do this in carpool line while cooking before you answer that stressful email or phone call. But I also want to give you a few sneaky daily ways to build gratitude into your rhythm. Let's use gratitude instead of apologizing. Instead of saying, sorry, I'm late, say, Thank you for waiting for me. That one swap rewires your brain toward appreciation, not shame, and it also affects the person receiving it. Here's another one. Add gratitude to your salt. I learned this from my Shima's, the Hawaiian salt ceremony. Take a little pinch or lick your finger and stick it in some Hawaiian sea salt, Celtic sea salt. Make sure it's sea salt. So you get the benefits of the electrolytes and the trace minerals. Then stick it in your mouth. and think grateful, happy thoughts. As it dissolves on your tongue, imagine those thoughts flowing through your body, nourishing you with those electrolytes and the gratitude at the same time. It's a full body reset that blends science and spirit, my favorite two things. See? Gratitude can fit anywhere in your day. You don't have to sit down to feel it. You can sip it, sprinkle it, and speak it. The holidays can be chaotic and they're coming quick. The noise, the family triggers, the endless to-do list. But here's what I've learned. You don't have to be grateful for everything. You just have to find gratitude within. Within. In the middle of the mess, find one sensory anger. Anchor. That came out as anger, didn't it? The taste of coffee, bleh. You might like it. I'll go for tea. Your kids laugh. The light hitting the floor. Those micro-moments remind your nervous system, I'm safe right now. And when your body feels safe, your mind clears, your hormones balance, and you return to yourself. So this Thanksgiving, stop overthinking gratitude. Just find three seconds to pause, breathe, and notice what's working. Swap sorry for thank you and get a pinch of salt and a dose of gratitude daily. Let your body feel safe enough to heal. Because gratitude doesn't just change your mindset, it changes your biology. If this episode spoke to you, take a screenshot, tag me at amanda.g.smith on Instagram or at Body Whisper Healing everywhere else and share one thing you're grateful for today. And if you want to go deeper into these grounded body-based rituals, I have a ceremony coming up November 19th. If you're listening to this after this episode, just know next year around Thanksgiving, I do a gratitude ceremony and you can join me. November 19th, 4 p.m. Pacific, 7 p.m. Eastern. It's $11. You can find it on my website or in the show notes. I'll see you next time. And remember, gratitude is medicine. Get your dose daily.